Category: A Life of Art Blog

Blugh and Marika ClimbingBlugh and Marika Climbing

Growing Up Past the Bolt

Blugh and Marika ClimbingBlugh and Marika Climbing
Blugh and Marika Climbing

That’s my husband lead sport climbing.  I’m below him belaying.  As he climbs, he pulls the rope up with him and secures it with a quick draw in pre-set bolts in the wall.  As he climbs past a bolt, he enters “scary fall zone”.  If he falls once he is beyond a bolt, the fall is longer, he is more likely to scrape himself up and the force of the fall will pull me off the ground, just a little.  In reality, he is safe. The gear and my belay will catch him.   We have learned and done everything we can to make it so.  He has a harness, a secure rope, knot, knowledge, practice and all our attention.

There are times when he is leading a climb and I get scared.  He climbs past the bolt, gets stuck and searches for a route to get to the next bolt.  He is nervous, clearly unsure and struggling.  I get anxious.  The last time I watched him struggle, I wondered why I bothered to watch him.  If he falls, he will be okay.  In reality, my anxiety doesn’t help him.

This is the essence of growing up past the bolt and parents should pay attention.  Why?

Ideally, parents do everything we can to provide safety for the risks of childhood and growing up.  We talk to them about the risks, we instill values, we set limitations, we teach them, provide an environment for growth and high standards.  But, eventually, they will have to climb past the bolt and enter “scary fall zone”.  Us parents can watch and get anxious or, provided that we have invested in learning, creating and communicating a safe structure, just let them fail or not.

Undoubtedly, climbing past the bolt sometimes means failure. It is the nature of risk-taking to fail.  In climbing classes, we always practice falling which is in essence, practicing failure.  It makes you a better climber to get comfortable as you climb past the bolt and fall. Get used to it.

I want my kids to fail (and succeed) a few times as they climb past the bolt and out of their comfort zone.  Failure shouldn’t scare them to paralysis – though it might always be a little scary.  The greatest learning in life happens when you climb past the bolt and into the risky unknown.

 

 

Watercolor Necklaces are Poems You Take With You

Personal and Meaningful

These necklaces are crafted with the intention to create a personal and meaningful connection for you and to ground you in that intention.

I’ve just posted  whole new bunch of necklaces with their stories.  The stories and poems are thought-juice and reflection.  If you like the idea of wearing an idea, take a look at this video where I’ve highlighted some of the new poems… I mean paintings.

 

Need Color?

These necklaces are perfect pop of color and sparkle that grab attention.

A Great Value

All necklaces are just $45. They come with the story, a cord or chain and certificate of authenticity and are packaged to perfection.   

You can take a peak here and browse My Online Store:  http://marikareinke.com/product-category/watercolor-necklace/ 

New Watercolor Necklaces
New Watercolor Necklaces
New Watercolor Necklaces
New Watercolor Necklaces
New Watercolor Necklaces
New Watercolor Necklaces
New Watercolor Necklaces
New Watercolor Necklaces

One of a Kind Gifts

I spent time considering the packaging for the necklaces and decided the necklace cards were best.  You can slip them into a card and envelope easily and they easily showcase the poems and stories written for each one.  These stories are often the reason people gift them to their loved ones.

Corazon Watercolor Necklace Pendant
Corazon Watercolor Necklace

You Look Good – As Usual

What it really comes down to is how they look on you.  And that, my friend, is the best part.

Browse My Online Store:  http://marikareinke.com/product-category/watercolor-necklace/ .

Just $45 each.  

 

Watercolor Necklaces: Top 3 Reasons to Try It, Some Common Problems and Solutions

Hello!

After five workshops mentoring 43 mostly-beginner watercolorists create stunning pendants, I’ve learned some things about people and watercolor and I’m excited to share this with you. First, this workshop did not turn out the way I expected which is a good thing because unpredictability is the nature of adventure. And I love a little adventure.

Just like people watercolors are:

  • Temperamental
  • Require patience
  • Distinctly individual
  • Absolutely stunning, surprising potential just waiting to break through with the help of a soft touch and guidance.

My initial reaction to being asked to teach this project was “Oh my god No! It’s too hard, watercolor is too hard and I don’t know anything.  It’s too much pressure. People won’t succeed. I’m not the right mentor or teacher for this job.”

What a bunch of fear-based self-deprecating BS designed to keep me from moving forward.  Not one word of this is true.  BUT here are some real truths about this workshop:

Truth #1: Watercolor Necklaces are an Excellent Beginner Project.

Why? This project is a low risk, high success and reward activity. Artists can work on larger sized paper and make and experiment with many different colors and techniques. Not every composition needs to be perfect because out of a 8″ x 10″ sheet only one 1/2″ x 1 1/2 pendant necklace will be made. This gives everyone a lot of room to play, learn and even get a little frustrated.  Through this process participants develop a vision as they work, they don’t need to know everything beforehand.

Take a look at my example below.  The first picture is of the paintings I did for possible pendants, there are 7 original paintings.  Notice that they are all larger than the final pendants and overall not very attracitve.  I didn’t like one of them so I up with 6.

small paintings framed in pendants.
small paintings framed in pendants.

Here you can see the final pendants that came from some relatively messy watercolor doodles.  At just a slice of the original, they are the most successful compositions and no one has to know where they came from.

Final pendants
Final pendants

With so many chances to create something you like, you will create something you like.  It’s inevitable.

Truth #2: Participants Learn Fundamental Art Concepts of Color and Composition in a Hands-on Safe and Experimental Environment.

After a couple hours of play and experiment, artists work on re-composing mini-paintings into jewelry.  Participants quickly learn success lies in composition. Composition is the organization of elements in an artwork and is the difference between love and repulsion. Many of us understand it instinctively.  Unlike working with canvas, this project allows you to play and then perfect the composition at the end.  There is no need to know exactly what you are doing when you start.  With the use of viewfinders artists can frame just the right one and hide any mistakes by not including them. Success lays in finding the right color combination for you and framing the composition the way that you like it.

Various compositions can be made from one small painting.
Various compositions can be made from one small painting.

Truth #3. Participants Learn to Let Go of Negativity and Flow.

Low risk and high success creates an environment rich for play.  The Pendants are a mini-exercise in learning to let go and to follow or partner with watercolor.

This is a balance between not just letting go but also learning to think with both an analytical and playful mind. When we analyze we learn, assess, adjust and think.  When we play; we paint, let go, feel gratitude, smile, laugh and have fun.  The place between these two is balance and a state of flow, time stands still and we enjoy ourselves, learn and problems solve, and act.  Flow feels good and it is good for you.

learn, paint, assess, play, adjust, explorelearn, paint, assess, play, adjust, explore
learn, paint, assess, play, adjust, explore

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Common Problems with Watercolor

Like anything, common beginner problems have emerged across the workshops too.  After some experimenting, I have some advice for artists struggling with them too.

Problem #1: Too Much Paint

To Much Paint (Hooker's Green)
To Much Paint (Hooker’s Green)

This looks like super saturated color, very vivid as it goes down but completely unworkable, dark and inky afterwards.  You can’t paint over it, the color is too thick no matter how hard you try. Why? Because watercolor is translucent, and any color you lay over too much paint will only turn out like mud or be slightly less than invisible. That thick color is there to stay and heavy with its presence.

Fear not! There is one fix. It is imperfect, but you can lift paint from the paper.

Here is How.

  1. Take a clear wet brush and saturate the color with water
  2. Lift the paint gently with paper towel, Q-tip or clean dry brush
Fixing too much paint!
Fixing too much paint!

Kind of like magic.

After I lifted the paint, I used more hooker green with a smaller brush, some gold and white gauche to highlight.

other solutions

There will always be a little ghost of color with the above solution.  This might be ok. Of course the best way to fix something is to make sure it doesn’t happen at all.

Here are some tips to stop the problem before it starts.

  • Know Before you Paint. Test the brush and use the test paper before painting.
  • Balance your Value. You don’t want too much paint or water on your brush and you don’t want too little. Too much paint and the color is too dark. Too little and you will barely see it.  To begin, go for a 40-60% value or saturation which is right in the middle of the lightest value and the darkest. With practice, you will get good at filling your brush with just the right amount of paint, but you have to practice.
Values in blue
Values in blue
  • Start with Less. Work from light to dark. Choose lighter colors first and lighter values and build layers of colors up to the value you want.
  • Big to Small. Work from big brush to smaller brush. Bigger brushes cover more ground but as you get closer to your goal, select different and smaller brushes to get to what you want.
  • Slow down and use your Imagination. Painting is as much about looking and thinking as it is about painting. Slow down, take  a break, step back and look at what you are doing.  Try to imagine what it will look like if you add more color and if you will like it.
  • Dab and push don’t stroke. Don’t use a brush stroke.  Use a smaller brush and dab along the edges of the painting.  This is particularly useful when the paper is a little damp and the watercolor can blend into the paper.

Problem #2: Too Little Paint

Not Enough Paint
Not Enough Paint

This is sometimes a harder problem to define. The painting looks nice enough but isn’t quite right. Fear is taking over though and the artist is afraid they will mess it up. So she/he stops. But something isn’t quite right.

solutions

  • Self-Check. Slow down and think about how you are feeling. Match that with how you want to feel. Often times, fear keeps the painter from painting. Are you scared you are going to mess it up? Does it look just good enough? Check in and find your courage to explore. Often times, you can take good to awesome by working through this fear.  Just swallow, assess and use your imagination!  What do you think you could do to improve it?
  • Check the Value Contrast. Contrast is key to creating dramatic art and often times what looks kind of nice can be transformed by checking your variation in value.  What is value?  Value is best described by understanding color in shades, like gray scale, color can flow from a low percentage to saturated.  The more variation you have in value, the more interesting the art, especially abstract art.
Value scale from white to black
Value scale from white to black

Often times, people have a hard time seeing values in color.  To get around this, try this simple trick.  Take a photo of your work with your cell phone then change it to black and white.  Immediately, you will see the variation in value regardless of hue.

In this example there is only value contrast in the dark yellow, the rest of the colors blend into each other with little variation.  It looks like two yellow eyes in grey clouds.

Not enough paint in values
Not enough paint in values

 

  • Go Small. This is a great way to add variation in value.  Use a smaller brush and create more value contrast and details, follow the paint and look for how to enhance the drama.
  • Dab and push don’t stroke. Don’t use a brush stroke.  Use a smaller brush and dab along the edges where colors transition or in areas you want to enhance.  This is particularly useful when the paper is a little damp and the watercolor can blend into the paper.

Here is the finished painting from the original.  I used the original swatch as a the background  and played up the yellow but added a lot more contrast and depth in the high and low values.  Can you see the difference in the variation of value from above?

Enough Paint
Enough Paint
Enough Paint in Grayscale
Enough Paint in Grayscale

 

Problem #3: Creating Mud

Mud
Mud

I see problems 1 & 2 the most, but the top question people ask me is how do I work with the paint and not create mud.  In this case, the paint seems to have a mind of its own and turns into a great swath of muddy gross non-descriptive color.

A little patience and knowledge of the color wheel helps do wonders for this problem.

The color wheel
The color wheel

The fundamental problem is that any two colors on opposite sides of the color wheel mixed together directly will produce a grey or brown of some kind. Honestly, if you like grey and brown sometimes the result is pure awesomeness. But often times it is inadvertent and frustrating.

According to the color wheel and put simply:

  • purple + yellow = mud
  • blue + orange = mud
  • red + green = mud

However, painting the colors next to each other are complementary and do look lovely together too. It is a dilemma.

My Jungle by Marika Reinke

 

Here are some solutions.

solutions

  • Slow down! Wait for them to dry before painting the another color next to or on top of them. A hairdryer comes in handy if you are in a hurry.  You can also move onto your next painting while you wait for this one to dry.  I did not paint red or orange into the painting above until I had laid most of my greens and yellows and they were dry.
  • Keep them separated. Paint the colors on opposite sides of the compositions and work towards each other until they are dry. In fact, some of my first paintings I didn’t let colors touch at all!
  • Develop good habits. All the solutions for problem number 1 apply here as well, practice those good painting habits and you will have some great results.

That my friends is my list of the top 3 reasons why, problems and solutions for you to try out this fun project.  You can check out my workshop page for workshop dates and details or my resources page and try it out yourself.

Love to you.

Fertility by Marika Reinke 2005 (c)

Fertility Adieu

When I receive this text: “Do you have a painting for a hysterectomy?”

“Why, of course I do.”

And then I said goodbye to this sweet painting this morning. SOLD. I love that she has a new home and love everything this painting gave me.

Fertility by Marika Reinke

This is a place of gratitude and unpeeling place of wonder.

You devotedly received her everything; visceral love, familial strength, earthly creation and boundless, mysterious motherhood. They seed securely in your cosmos; timeless and ancestral.

This place has done her selfless duty and given until she needed to no longer.

This is a place of love and a place of beauty. A place for pocket-shrines and vistas in her name.

13” x 10” Watercolor

Fertility by Marika Reinke 2017
Fertility by Marika Reinke 2017
Fertility by Marika Reinke 2005 (c)
Fertility by Marika Reinke 2005 (c)Fertility by Marika Reinke 2005 (c)

The Next Party Watercolor by Marika Reinke 16" x 12"

The Next Party

The Next Party

The Next Party Watercolor by Marika Reinke 16" x 12"
The Next Party Watercolor by Marika Reinke 16″ x 12″

There is no better party than the present.

Watercolor 16″ x 12″

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Limited Edition Prints are Available $49

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Bent Rib drawing by Marika Reinke 2015

This Year, I Own Mother’s Day

Bent Rib drawing by Marika Reinke 2015
Bent Rib drawing by Marika Reinke 2015

This year, I own Mother’s Day.

It used to be about others; my mother, my kids, the mothers I know and many birthdays.  I let the day pass without a thought but a card, a few texts from friends and some flowers for my mother.  It was an afterthought; “Oh yeah, I’m a mother too.”

This year is different.

This year it is about me.  I accept that I am thoroughly, totally and bone shakenly a mother. It has taken me 11 years to consciously get it.

Why so long?

I’ve been busy figuring out motherhood while simultaneously being in denial and clinging to the remnants of my past life. Apparently, I’m a slow learner.

I have been surviving; occupied with the daily, physical and psychological tasks of being not only a mother, but a wife, a colleague, a teacher, a leader, an employee, a daughter, a traveler, a sister and friend. Amongst all this, I didn’t quite realize I had transformed into a mother, if atypical.

Add to that that I’m a whole bunch of “nots”.

I’m not amazing. I’m not super woman. I’m not loving, ever-giving and kind. I’m not the mother in flowery greeting cards with perfumed and pink envelopes. I don’t bake cookies in a flowered apron. I dislike pink for what it stands for. I don’t know ego-less love. I’m not an archetype. I am not always there for my kids. I’m not a perfect role model. I’m not like other moms.

I admit, sometimes I swear in front of them.  I definitely get mad at my kids. Sometimes, I put myself on time out so I won’t scream what I want to scream. Sometimes I yell anyway. I have endless guilt. I fear I will ruin their lives.  I’m sure I will ruin their lives.

I am an anti-mother. I’m hard on my kids. I push them and sometimes I make them uncomfortable and cry. I have been honest and direct with them, choosing truth over comfort even when it made them tense.  I have given them cupcakes for breakfast and stolen their Halloween candy. I have been inconsistent, kind and ruthless. I have been selfish, selfless, loving and cold. I have failed my kids individual needs. I have given my kids what I needed.  I unconsciously and always put my family first even when it wasn’t for the best.  I am a fierce fighter. Do not stand between me and my kids. I will not be soft, kind, graceful if you do. I will not hesitate to use my fists if I have to. Write that on a Mother’s Day card and make it black.

And there is this…

I tell my kids that their job is to make me happy. I tell them that other parents don’t love their kids as much as I love them because I don’t let them (fill in the blank). I tell my son he is nagging and needs to work on better strategies for managing his boredom.  I tell my daughter her organization skills suck. I tell them that fair is a fairytale.

I tell them they are perfection. I tell them I’m so grateful for them. I love them, passionately and deeply, every single day.

I have been physically transformed by them, my hips are wider, my breast varying shapes and sensations from them. I have a bent, sometimes achy rib from my son’s pregnancy. I endured the richest and most deliberate pain giving birth to my kids. I experienced crazy, irrational love, exhausted relief and accompanying rage.  I have not enjoyed sleep as luxuriously as before motherhood. I have been in the worst shape of my life after their birth.

Motherhood almost took my life after a black and bloody miscarriage. I sobbed silently, numbly and uncontrollably in the recovery room after an emergency DNC. It scared my husband and I intensely. A byproduct of motherhood is that it can kill you.

I have been isolated by motherhood.  I lost friends as I learned to mother.  My energy to give generously to others waned. As my social world collapsed into hyper-focus on two little souls, I became a shitty friend. I became a crappy daughter that desperately didn’t want to become my mother. I am a strange mother, an outsider with parenting quirks. I chose natural childbirth, breastfeeding, a career throughout and I believe nurturing looks more like tough love than coddling.

Motherhood was a 9.0 earthquake to my marriage.  Now, it is rebuilt and an unrecognizable form. I almost can’t remember what it was.

I’ve not paid attention to Mother’s Day because I’ve been so busy picking up the pieces of my identity since it rocked us.

It has been my dirty, messy, disturbed hero’s journey not into spiritual enlightenment but into grounded and unhinged motherhood. Not a cycle, not a pretty path, not a journey into something better but a journey into furious acceptance, a rich relationship with anxiety and fear and a deep, layered and textured understanding of love.

I believe…

Motherhood happens to a mom. Mothers do not courageously lead families. These kids and their experiences, they choose us as their adventure. We manage the damage as it occurs.

I have learned deep lessons. The hardest and longest ones of all have been about having compassion for myself. Compassion for my kids, that is easy.

The best thing so far; I removed the expectation that I control my kids character or destiny. Barring the crazy mind blowing miracle of pregnancy, I don’t make them into anything.  I can set up a framework; schools, activities, communities, nourishment, vacations, and most importantly a clear understanding of my views and values, that they work within and then I let them go.

They teach me. It is a deep truth. I must be a better person because of them.  They lead and I follow.   I survive. I am molded.  I will never return.  Motherhood defines me.

I own Mother’s Day, and it is everyday.

 

Make Your Own Watercolor Necklace - Paint and Sip

Here is a Great Deal on My NEW Watercolor Necklace “Paint and Sip” Workshop in June

Just a little curious? Curious people ARE Creative.

Are you curious about how I make my watercolor painting necklaces?  Do you want to learn how to access your creative wisdom to create your own?

I’m looking for a group of curious people to join me for a trial 3 hour Watercolor Necklace workshop.  This offer is Win-Win.

  • You will create your own unique watercolor necklace that you love while sipping some specially selected wines.
  • I will learn to refine my workshop and teaching skills.
  • AND we will have fun; listen to some music, and share some good laughs.

I’m offering this workshop on three different nights in Seattle and one in Costa Rica for a over 50% discount of just $19 each (usually $39). In return,  give me your honest feedback about the process and my teaching so I can refine my approach and materials.

Here are the dates and times. The Seattle location is currently scheduled in Queen Anne.

Sign up here: http://marikareinke.com/product/watercolor-necklace-workshop-seattle-queen-anne/

Round up 5 people on your own, I will come to you and host a private party in June only. Contact me directly at marika@marikareinke.com to make arrangements.

This offer is for everyone, so  invite your friends.  I have a 5 person minimum and 8 person maximum.

  • I want to connect you to your creative wisdom and intuition to create art and jewelry you love.
  • I want you to discover something new about yourself in the process.
  • I want you to have fun, sip some specially selected wine and create some awesome memories with new and old friends.

 

Midnight Speaking Watercolor by Marika Reinke 2017 12' x 16"

Midnight Speaking

Midnight Speaking Watercolor by Marika Reinke 2017 12' x 16"
Midnight Speaking Watercolor by Marika Reinke 2017 12′ x 16″

Do you believe in midnight voices?

Lost in the dark; an echoing ritual call

A speaking vision commands

“Trust!”

“Create!”

It is easier in the midnight light,

The hazy fuzz of sleep still clinging to dreams

With sideways thoughts

Doubt dissolves

So we can dance and paint.

BUY

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Limited Edition Prints are Available $49

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Wishes and Desires by Marika Reinke 2017

Wishes and Desires

Wishes and Desires by Marika Reinke 2017
Wishes and Desires by Marika Reinke 2017 Watercolor 16″ x 12″

The sky is not falling.

The world rotates,
or revolves,

in a quiet grind sticky with prayer-prints.

In a pleaded-on galaxy,
the passion-folding universe is empowered by requests upon planets.

We are rivulet of wants,
Torrents of wishes and desires,
Dammed by rocky fears,
Worn down by time.

 

 

 

BUY

Original is Available $219.99

Limited Edition Prints are Available $49.99

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Resonate Watercolor Painting Necklace by Marika Reinke 2017

Watercolor Painting Necklaces

Really, you don’t have to wear a necklace.  Most of the time, why worry about it?  It isn’t an essential and most of the time, they are for people that are into fashion trends and style magazines.

But a necklace isn’t always about style or trends. Instead, a necklace can be about inner beauty, strength, and courage.

There are times when self-expression is a necessary luxury and peace of mind, like settling the nerves of an upcoming public speaking engagement, garnering courage to ask for a promotion, vulnerable moments when a little pop of color brings much needed cheer, or a gentle reminder in troubled times that this too shall pass and is an opportunity to grow. There are times when a necklace expresses, grounds, reminds and protects you. And you deserve it.

A necklace can speak to and for you.  Only you know when you look at it and say, “Yes, this is me! It is about me!”

That’s why I paint these watercolor necklaces; to connect you to the truth of you when you need it; everyday, some days or on special occasions.

Which one expresses you? Shop my Jewelry Store Here.

Which One Expresses You: Watercolor Painting Necklace by Marika Reinke 2017
Which One Expresses You: Watercolor Painting Necklace by Marika Reinke 2017

 

I paint them one by one

I start with pure intuition, inspiration and high quality watercolors then let these paintings emerge from the paintbrush and intention. The result is a unique little painting that sparkles like a jewel and tells a story that, I believe, will connect with just the right person. The essence of that story is captured with a short original poem that I write and deliver with each one.

Watercolor Paintings in Progress by Marika Reinke 2017
Watercolor Paintings in Progress by Marika Reinke 2017

Believe me, I don’t finish a painting, unless I think it is perfect, even if it means waiting again for another dot to dry.  When I reach that moment and I’m sure, I begin to frame them in glass, name and sign them, and seal them with a durable diamond glaze. The complete process can take 2-3 days with many settled moments waiting for paint, glaze and glue to dry in between.

The best part is when everyone comes together; a painting, a poem, a watercolor necklace find the perfect person who cherishes this piece of art as truest self-expression.

Which one expresses you? Shop my Jewelry Store Here.

Each is Original

My bestselling watercolor necklaces are completely unique.  No two are alike and no painting is ever copied.  Once the perfect necklace is in its owner’s hands, that necklace has found its soul mate.  If you think you’ve found yours, believe it. It was made for you.

My Guarantee

I offer a 100% money back guarantee, if you aren’t satisfied I will refund your money or exchange it for the right watercolor necklace for you.

Wear a necklace that expresses you.

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